Addressing a Diminishing Job Performance

Addressing a Diminishing Job Performance

Leadership Blog

My leadership blog is all about helping current and emerging leaders learn how to transform difficult conversations and dysfunctional workplace relationships into positive and productive ones.

Brie Barker

Addressing a Diminishing Job Performance


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An employee demonstrating diminishing job performance is both common and important enough that, as a leader/manager, you need to know how to address it effectively.

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From what I’ve seen in my practice, many leaders/managers consider this a difficult conversation to even initiate, let alone execute effectively.
/
Here’s how you can begin that conversation in a way that will yield a positive and productive outcome.
/
In general terms, the answer to reversing a situation of diminishing job performance is to get your employee to either:
/
»»  Start doing something,
»»  Start doing something BETTER, or
»»  Stop doing something.
/
And sometimes it’s some multiple/combination of those things.
/
Now, just telling your employee to start/improve/stop seldom works and, if it does, the change will almost always be temporary.
/

The first thing you need to do is understand why this change in performance/behaviour is happening — and you’re best to start from a place of non-judgement. 

/

S E E K   F I R S T   T O   U N D E R S T A N D

Seek first to understand.

/
Arrange to have a conversation in a private setting.  A neutral place such as a meeting room helps to suspend an unhelpful power dynamic that could be present in your personal office space.  The initial tone and feeling of the conversation should be more human-to-human and less boss-to-employee.
/

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Opening the Conversation:

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Open your conversation with something like this …
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“I’ve noticed that your job performance has dropped lately, Chris.
I’m used to you operating on a higher level and I just want to check in with you on that.
Can you shed some light for me on what’s happening?”
/
Let’s unpack this wording a bit …
/

Sentence #1:

  • You are getting right to the point of the conversation.  This helps you stay focused and Chris isn’t left feeling anxious in wondering  what the conversation’s going to be about.
  • You are making an observation about Chris’ performance, not casting blame/shame by saying something like, “You’ve been doing a lousy job lately.”

Sentence #2:

  • It’s clear to Chris that you acknowledge this is a change from a higher performance level, which will reduce any defensiveness.
  • Your intention is clear — you have general concern for Chris; you want Chris’ perspective and are not making any assumptions.

Sentence #3:

  • This is an open invitation for Chris to share, not a demand for accountability.
  • You may think you know the reasons for the diminishing performance but people feel more empowered and respected when they’re giving the opportunity to self-assess … plus, you might be wrong.
  • At the end of this sentence, remain silent until Chris has had time to process and respond.

/


/

Employee’s Possible Responses:

/
Chris’ response will likely come in one of three flavours.  Here’s what they are and how you can respond, in turn:
/

Response A:

Chris responds openly with thoughts of what the root cause(s) of the diminishing performance are.

 

If this happens, it’s a sure sign that Chris trusts you.  Give yourself an Awesome Leader checkmark!
/

Response B:

Chris will refute your claim.
/
There are two reasons why Chris might do this:
/
»»  Chris agrees but is too egotistical or embarrassed to say so
»»  Chris doesn’t agree
/
Either way, you need to respond with specifics that support your claim, e.g.:
/
“You haven’t met your quota for the past two months.”
“You were two weeks late in finishing your part of the System-X project, which pushed our go-live date back another month.”
“Accounting had to send your monthly budget status report back to you three times for you to correct significant errors.”
/
Again, it’s important to cite such things as observations, without hostility.
/
After you lay out the specifics, it will help reduce any defensiveness that might have creeped up by saying something like, “And this just isn’t the solid level of job performance that you’ve always delivered.”
/

Response C:

Chris will acknowledge his poor performance but will say something like, “I’m not really sure why things aren’t going well lately.”
/
A response like this can mean either:
/
»»  Chris does know what’s going on but isn’t feeling comfortable enough to talk about it yet (it comes down to trust) or, less likely,
»»  Chris really doesn’t know why this is happening.
/
If it means the former you need to re-extend the invitation to share; if it means the latter then you need to try and help Chris figure it out.
/
Either way, there are two specific further lines of enquiry for you to move to now, in order:  (Note that both of them still invite Chris to self-assess.)
/
1.  Work Environment:
“Can you think of any systemic or procedural issues, or interpersonal problems that could be affecting your performance?”
/
If that yields fruit, continue the conversation.  If it doesn’t yield fruit, go to the next line of enquiry,
/
2.  Personal Life:
“Can you tell me about anything that’s going on in your personal life that could be affecting your performance at work?  We’re all human and sometimes life’s circumstances are really hard to manage.”
/
The second sentence helps normalize the situation in Chris’ mind and continue to make Chris feel less vulnerable.
/
If this line of enquiry yields fruit, continue the exploration.
/
If this doesn’t yield fruit either, then one of two things is likely going on:

 

»»  Chris is feeling too vulnerable to share these things with you — you need to build up more trust.
»»  Chris isn’t emotionally ready to recognize the source of problems and may need time and/or professional help to figure this out.

/

So those are a few paths that lead to the first thing you need to accomplish when addressing an employee’s diminishing job performance — understand the root cause(s) — why it’s happening.

/
Of course, there’s quite a way to go before this conversation plays out, but that’s where I’m going to leave things today.
/
Have a productive and enjoyable day!
/
— Brie
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Blog Post

Addressing a Diminishing Job Performance


/

An employee demonstrating diminishing job performance is both common and important enough that, as a leader/manager, you need to know how to address it effectively.

/
From what I’ve seen in my practice, many leaders/managers consider this a difficult conversation to even initiate, let alone execute effectively.
/
Here’s how you can begin that conversation in a way that will yield a positive and productive outcome.
/
In general terms, the answer to reversing a situation of diminishing job performance is to get your employee to either:
/
»»  Start doing something,
»»  Start doing something BETTER, or
»»  Stop doing something.
/
And sometimes it’s some multiple/combination of those things.
/
Now, just telling your employee to start/improve/stop seldom works and, if it does, the change will almost always be temporary.
/

The first thing you need to do is understand why this change in performance/behaviour is happening — and you’re best to start from a place of non-judgement. 

/

S E E K   F I R S T   T O   U N D E R S T A N D

Seek first to understand.

/
Arrange to have a conversation in a private setting.  A neutral place such as a meeting room helps to suspend an unhelpful power dynamic that could be present in your personal office space.  The initial tone and feeling of the conversation should be more human-to-human and less boss-to-employee.
/

//

Opening the Conversation:

/
Open your conversation with something like this …
/
“I’ve noticed that your job performance has dropped lately, Chris.
I’m used to you operating on a higher level and I just want to check in with you on that.
Can you shed some light for me on what’s happening?”
/
Let’s unpack this wording a bit …
/

Sentence #1:

  • You are getting right to the point of the conversation.  This helps you stay focused and Chris isn’t left feeling anxious in wondering  what the conversation’s going to be about.
  • You are making an observation about Chris’ performance, not casting blame/shame by saying something like, “You’ve been doing a lousy job lately.”

Sentence #2:

  • It’s clear to Chris that you acknowledge this is a change from a higher performance level, which will reduce any defensiveness.
  • Your intention is clear — you have general concern for Chris; you want Chris’ perspective and are not making any assumptions.

Sentence #3:

  • This is an open invitation for Chris to share, not a demand for accountability.
  • You may think you know the reasons for the diminishing performance but people feel more empowered and respected when they’re giving the opportunity to self-assess … plus, you might be wrong.
  • At the end of this sentence, remain silent until Chris has had time to process and respond.

/


/

Employee’s Possible Responses:

/
Chris’ response will likely come in one of three flavours.  Here’s what they are and how you can respond, in turn:
/

Response A:

Chris responds openly with thoughts of what the root cause(s) of the diminishing performance are.

 

If this happens, it’s a sure sign that Chris trusts you.  Give yourself an Awesome Leader checkmark!
/

Response B:

Chris will refute your claim.
/
There are two reasons why Chris might do this:
/
»»  Chris agrees but is too egotistical or embarrassed to say so
»»  Chris doesn’t agree
/
Either way, you need to respond with specifics that support your claim, e.g.:
/
“You haven’t met your quota for the past two months.”
“You were two weeks late in finishing your part of the System-X project, which pushed our go-live date back another month.”
“Accounting had to send your monthly budget status report back to you three times for you to correct significant errors.”
/
Again, it’s important to cite such things as observations, without hostility.
/
After you lay out the specifics, it will help reduce any defensiveness that might have creeped up by saying something like, “And this just isn’t the solid level of job performance that you’ve always delivered.”
/

Response C:

Chris will acknowledge his poor performance but will say something like, “I’m not really sure why things aren’t going well lately.”
/
A response like this can mean either:
/
»»  Chris does know what’s going on but isn’t feeling comfortable enough to talk about it yet (it comes down to trust) or, less likely,
»»  Chris really doesn’t know why this is happening.
/
If it means the former you need to re-extend the invitation to share; if it means the latter then you need to try and help Chris figure it out.
/
Either way, there are two specific further lines of enquiry for you to move to now, in order:  (Note that both of them still invite Chris to self-assess.)
/
1.  Work Environment:
“Can you think of any systemic or procedural issues, or interpersonal problems that could be affecting your performance?”
/
If that yields fruit, continue the conversation.  If it doesn’t yield fruit, go to the next line of enquiry,
/
2.  Personal Life:
“Can you tell me about anything that’s going on in your personal life that could be affecting your performance at work?  We’re all human and sometimes life’s circumstances are really hard to manage.”
/
The second sentence helps normalize the situation in Chris’ mind and continue to make Chris feel less vulnerable.
/
If this line of enquiry yields fruit, continue the exploration.
/
If this doesn’t yield fruit either, then one of two things is likely going on:

 

»»  Chris is feeling too vulnerable to share these things with you — you need to build up more trust.
»»  Chris isn’t emotionally ready to recognize the source of problems and may need time and/or professional help to figure this out.

/

So those are a few paths that lead to the first thing you need to accomplish when addressing an employee’s diminishing job performance — understand the root cause(s) — why it’s happening.

/
Of course, there’s quite a way to go before this conversation plays out, but that’s where I’m going to leave things today.
/
Have a productive and enjoyable day!
/
— Brie
/
© 2018 Connected Conversations™

3 Steps to Retaining Top Talent When Denying a Promotion

3 Steps to Retaining Top Talent When Denying a Promotion

Leadership Blog

My leadership blog is all about helping current and emerging leaders learn how to transform difficult conversations and dysfunctional workplace relationships into positive and productive ones.

Brie Barker

3 Steps to Retaining Top Talent When Denying a Promotion

This past weekend, my son, Finley, went to try-out for his Little League club’s “A” team for summer baseball.  There were about 30 kids at the try-outs and only the top 12 are chosen.  The kids who don’t make the “A” team join a pool of about another 110 kids and they’re all divided into several, evenly balanced, “B” teams.

/

The head coach, Paul, is everything you want as a coach for your kid.  He’s extremely passionate and knowledgeable about baseball, he stresses good sportsmanship and, while he coaches to win, he always sees his primary role as ensuring the kids are continually developing their skills and having fun.
/
At the end of the try-outs, while Paul got to make 12 kids very happy by telling them they made the team, he also had the unenvious task of telling 17 kids that they didn’t make the team — including my son, Finley.
/
Now here’s the thing … Finley is a very gifted athlete with hand-eye coordination and spacial skills that are well beyond his age.
/

For the record, this has been widely corroborated beyond his proud papa!

/
He also absolutely loves to play baseball.
/
But Finley is only 8-years old and this is his first year in the minor division, which means he’s playing with kids who are as old as 11.  He’s also small for his age so the reality is that he just doesn’t have the size and strength that the older kids do, kids who also have a year or two more experience than him.
/
Coach Paul believes that Finley will likely become one of the club’s best players and wants him to stick around.  The way in which he communicates to Finley that he didn’t make the “A” team is a key factor in whether or not he’ll want to.
/
If you’re one of your organization’s leaders or HR executives, this scenario resonates all too much.  If you’re like your brethren that I speak with, you’d probably tell me that retaining top talent is definitely one of your biggest concerns and challenges.
/
All you need to do is replace my 8-year old Boston Red Sox hopeful with one of your organization’s rising stars who’s put in for a promotion and you and Coach Paul are in the same ballpark.
/
When you have to deny that person a promotion, be it because they need some further development and experience or that next rung of the ladder is just too crowded right now, you need to communicate this carefully if you don’t want them to pack up and seek greener pastures.

/


/

Here are the three steps to follow when you’re denying a promotion to a rising star that you want to ensure you keep on your team …

/


/

#1 — Pre-conversation

/
Remind yourself that they’re likely to be highly disappointed; they were seeking the promotion as a vehicle to obtain things that are important to them.
/
Choose a private setting where the person will feel free to express themselves, i.e. without being seen or overheard by others.
/
Schedule the meeting as soon as possible, as they are likely anxious to know the outcome.  Early in the week is best.
/
Don’t schedule the meeting close to the weekend, a special event of the person’s or just prior to their vacation.  A Monday or Tuesday would be ideal.  The importance of this relates to Step 3.

/

#2 — During the Conversation

/

Talk about the present situation:

/
Get to the point right away and, with empathy, tell them,
“Not all of the conditions were right at this time for us to be able to give you the promotion.”  
This is saying it’s the conditions that weren’t right, not that there was something wrong with them.  This lands very differently from the standard “You’re not getting the promotion.”
/
Say something like,
“It’s important to me that you know what I mean by that, [NAME], because I really appreciate everything you contribute to around here.  Can I share with you what shaped the decision?”  
This feels respectful and starts to shift the tone right away by reinforcing that they’re valued.  Ensure you answer all their questions.
/

Talk about the future:

/
Revisit and reaffirm what their goals and aspirations are within your organization, along with understanding what motivates them.
/
Be consultative in talking about what they think their strengths are and what they could improve upon in terms of advancing to that next step in their career at your organization.  Use open-ended questions like,
“What things do you think you could bolster to putting yourself in an even more favourable position for a promotion?”
/
Say,
“I’d really like to help you achieve your goal of moving up to the next level here, [NAME].  How would you feel about us working together on a specific action plan towards making that happen?”
This lets them know you envision them progressing in the company and the question empowers them to step into that and commit to focusing on the future.
/
Set the stage for the next step:
“Let’s set a time to get together at the end of the week to start crafting your development plan.  Over the next few days, let’s both make sure we take some time to brainstorm some initial ideas on what things you could do on your own and what specific development opportunities we could create for you.  How does that sound, [NAME]?”
This reaffirms you’re both making a commitment to this. This also gets them to focus on their future in your organization right away and scheduling the first action plan meeting before the end of that first week has them going into the weekend with concrete proof that you truly do believe in their future career goals.

/

#3 — Post-Conversation

/
Be sure you keep your commitments to them in being active in their development.
/
Ensure you schedule regular check-ins to see how things are progressing and if either of you think their action plan needs any adjustments along the way.
/

/

In today’s marketplace, you just can’t afford to lose your top talent.  

/
Following the specifics in the above 3 steps will do a lot to ensure you retain your rising stars in the wake of denying them a promotion.
/
I’ll end with a tip-of-the-cap to Coach Paul … his good communication skills have resulted in him securing a deep farm team for the club’s future success — and Finley is an enthusiastic part of it.
/

Play ball!

/
Have a productive and enjoyable day!
/
— Brie

Blog Post

3 Steps to Retaining Top Talent When Denying a Promotion

This past weekend, my son, Finley, went to try-out for his Little League club’s “A” team for summer baseball.  There were about 30 kids at the try-outs and only the top 12 are chosen.  The kids who don’t make the “A” team join a pool of about another 110 kids and they’re all divided into several, evenly balanced, “B” teams.

/

The head coach, Paul, is everything you want as a coach for your kid.  He’s extremely passionate and knowledgeable about baseball, he stresses good sportsmanship and, while he coaches to win, he always sees his primary role as ensuring the kids are continually developing their skills and having fun.
/
At the end of the try-outs, while Paul got to make 12 kids very happy by telling them they made the team, he also had the unenvious task of telling 17 kids that they didn’t make the team — including my son, Finley.
/
Now here’s the thing … Finley is a very gifted athlete with hand-eye coordination and spacial skills that are well beyond his age.
/

For the record, this has been widely corroborated beyond his proud papa!

/
He also absolutely loves to play baseball.
/
But Finley is only 8-years old and this is his first year in the minor division, which means he’s playing with kids who are as old as 11.  He’s also small for his age so the reality is that he just doesn’t have the size and strength that the older kids do, kids who also have a year or two more experience than him.
/
Coach Paul believes that Finley will likely become one of the club’s best players and wants him to stick around.  The way in which he communicates to Finley that he didn’t make the “A” team is a key factor in whether or not he’ll want to.
/
If you’re one of your organization’s leaders or HR executives, this scenario resonates all too much.  If you’re like your brethren that I speak with, you’d probably tell me that retaining top talent is definitely one of your biggest concerns and challenges.
/
All you need to do is replace my 8-year old Boston Red Sox hopeful with one of your organization’s rising stars who’s put in for a promotion and you and Coach Paul are in the same ballpark.
/
When you have to deny that person a promotion, be it because they need some further development and experience or that next rung of the ladder is just too crowded right now, you need to communicate this carefully if you don’t want them to pack up and seek greener pastures.

/


/

Here are the three steps to follow when you’re denying a promotion to a rising star that you want to ensure you keep on your team …

/


/

#1 — Pre-conversation

/

/ Remind yourself that they’re likely to be highly disappointed; they were seeking the promotion as a vehicle to obtain things that are important to them.

/

/ Choose a private setting where the person will feel free to express themselves, i.e. without being seen or overheard by others.

/

/ Schedule the meeting as soon as possible, as they are likely anxious to know the outcome.  Early in the week is best.

/

/ Don’t schedule the meeting close to the weekend, a special event of the person’s or just prior to their vacation.  A Monday or Tuesday would be ideal.  The importance of this relates to Step 3.

/

#2 — During the Conversation

/

Talk about the present situation:

/
Get to the point right away and, with empathy, tell them,
“Not all of the conditions were right at this time for us to be able to give you the promotion.”  
This is saying it’s the conditions that weren’t right, not that there was something wrong with them.  This lands very differently from the standard “You’re not getting the promotion.”

/

/ Say something like,
“It’s important to me that you know what I mean by that, [NAME], because I really appreciate everything you contribute to around here.  Can I share with you what shaped the decision?”
This feels respectful and starts to shift the tone right away by reinforcing that they’re valued.  Ensure you answer all their questions.
/

Talk about the future:

/
/ Revisit and reaffirm what their goals and aspirations are within your organization, along with understanding what motivates them.
/
/ Be consultative in talking about what they think their strengths are and what they could improve upon in terms of advancing to that next step in their career at your organization.  Use open-ended questions like,
“What things do you think you could bolster to putting yourself in an even more favourable position for a promotion?”
/
/ Say,
“I’d really like to help you achieve your goal of moving up to the next level here, [NAME].  How would you feel about us working together on a specific action plan towards making that happen?”
This lets them know you envision them progressing in the company and the question empowers them to step into that and commit to focusing on the future.
/
/ Set the stage for the next step:
“Let’s set a time to get together at the end of the week to start crafting your development plan.  Over the next few days, let’s both make sure we take some time to brainstorm some initial ideas on what things you could do on your own and what specific development opportunities we could create for you.  How does that sound, [NAME]?”
This reaffirms you’re both making a commitment to this. This also gets them to focus on their future in your organization right away and scheduling the first action plan meeting before the end of that first week has them going into the weekend with concrete proof that you truly do believe in their future career goals.

/

#3 — Post-Conversation

/

/ Be sure you keep your commitments to them in being active in their development.

/

/ Ensure you schedule regular check-ins to see how things are progressing and if either of you think their action plan needs any adjustments along the way.
/

/

In today’s marketplace, you just can’t afford to lose your top talent.  

/

Following the specifics in the above 3 steps will do a lot to ensure you retain your rising stars in the wake of denying them a promotion.
/
I’ll end with a tip-of-the-cap to Coach Paul … his good communication skills have resulted in him securing a deep farm team for the club’s future success — and Finley is an enthusiastic part of it.

/

Play ball!

/
Have a productive and enjoyable day!
/
— Brie
© 2018 Connected Conversations™